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Thoughtful Gifts for Someone Who is Grieving (Beyond Flowers and Plants)

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When someone we care about is grieving, it can be difficult to know how to offer comfort. While flowers are a traditional sympathy gift, they may not be the best choice for everyone. Some people find it difficult to care for plants during their grief, while others may appreciate a more personal, practical, or comforting gesture. Here are some thoughtful alternatives to consider when supporting someone who has experienced a loss.


1. Self-Care Basket

A self-care basket is a wonderful way to offer comfort and encourage moments of rest and healing. Items you could include:

·         A soft blanket for warmth and comfort

·         Bath soaks or Epsom salts to promote relaxation

·         Lotion with a soothing scent to encourage self-care

·         A cooling gel eye mask for relieving stress and headaches

·         A gift card for a meal delivery service or their favorite store

·         A lavender sachet to promote relaxation and better sleep

·         Healing crystals such as amethyst (for peace), rose quartz (for love), or black onyx (for protection and grounding)


2. Journals or Guided Grief Workbooks

Writing can be a helpful tool for processing grief. A blank journal or a guided grief workbook can provide a private space for reflection and emotional expression. Add some colorful gel pens or highlighters for an extra added touch.


3. Comfort Items

Grieving individuals often appreciate small comforts that provide a sense of security. Consider:

·         A weighted blanket for deep pressure relaxation

·         A plush pillow or stuffed animal for comfort

·         A custom memory pillow or blanket made from a loved one’s clothing

·         Comfortable socks or slippers to encourage self-care and warmth


4. Books on Grief and Healing

Books can offer insight, validation, and comfort during difficult times. Some highly

recommended options include:

·         The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion

·         It’s OK That You’re Not OK by Megan Devine

·         Healing After Loss: Daily Meditations for Working Through Grief by Martha Whitmore Hickman


5. Practical Support Gifts

Grief can make everyday tasks feel overwhelming. Gifts that offer practical support include:

·         Meal delivery service gift cards

·         House cleaning or laundry service gift certificates

·         Grocery delivery service subscriptions

·         Pre-made frozen meals that can be easily heated

·         6. Memorial or Personalized Gifts


A keepsake that honors their loved one can be deeply meaningful. Some ideas include:

·         A custom piece of jewelry with their loved one’s initials or birthstone

·         A personalized ornament or framed photo

·         A memory jar where they can collect notes and memories over time

·         A wind chime with an engraving to create a soothing sound in remembrance


7. Art and Craft Supplies

Engaging in creative activities can be therapeutic and offer an outlet for emotions. Consider gifting:

·         Painting supplies, such as canvases, brushes, and acrylic paints

·         Drawing materials, including sketchbooks, colored pencils, or charcoal

·         Adult coloring books paired with high-quality markers or colored pencils

·         Yarn, knitting needles, or crochet hooks for those who enjoy fiber arts

·         DIY craft kits tailored to their interests, such as embroidery, jewelry-making, or

scrapbooking


8. Experiences and Connection

Sometimes, the best gift is the gift of presence and support. Ideas include:

·         A handwritten letter sharing a meaningful memory or words of encouragement

·         An invitation to a low-key outing (e.g., a quiet walk, coffee date, or art therapy session)

·         Subscription to a meditation or grief support app


Final Thoughts

Grief is deeply personal, and what brings comfort will vary for each person. The most important thing is to offer your support in a way that feels meaningful and considerate. Whether through a self-care package, a heartfelt letter, or a practical gesture, your kindness can make a difference in their healing journey.

 

Have you received or given a unique gift that brought comfort during grief? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.


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